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Getting Ready Dear Valentine!

2012-02-14T01:29:00.000-05:00

Growing up in my home, my mother always made Valentines day very special. Hearts where hung around the house. Pretty wrapped gifts were set out on the table waiting for us to eagerly open them. The sweetest thing about that day was that it was my mom's birthday as well. Even though it was her special day, she always made us feel so loved too.

So, here is what we do to get ready for one of my favorite days of the year...

Getting valentines ready for school! Pinterest, OH how I love you!

Being careful not to miss any names, even the boys.

What a silly girl!

What a very silly girl!

Making some more valentines for her girls club at church.

The house is decorated in hearts. Valentines have been mailed!

Even my flowers have bloomed on this special day!

Happy Valentines Day!

And a very Happy Birthday to my beautiful mom! I love you more than words can say!

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Saying, "Hello" Also Means Saying, "Goodbye" Part 1

2012-02-13T12:16:00.001-05:00

Starting a new church is very exciting; but there is one aspect that mostpeople do not discuss as often and that is there is something we are sayinggoodbye to.

My dad just recently told my girls the story about saying goodbye tome when he dropped me off at college. He told them how hard it was forhim and how he choked back the tears as I walked off to my dorm. He went on totell them that it was one of the hardest moments of his life to leave me inanother state and drive home.

Our wonderful church family!

The other side of that story is the young college girl walking away from herdad to a new life, new experiences, and new friends. I remember veryvividly that walk to my dorm. I did not look back at my dad for fear thatI would burst in to tears and beg him to stay. I knew that college wasGod's plan for me; but I was going to dearly miss my family. I rememberwatching him drive away and tried to control the tears that wanted to run downmy face.

Our awesome youth group!

We will be saying goodbye to our current church in a few months. Ourchurch has become our family here in our small town in northern Michigan. We have worked in two churches before coming here and both were only for a couple years. They were great places, we loved them as well and they were full of wonderful lifetime friends. However, Irecently discovered that I have NEVER been in a church as long as I have beenhere. They have become my "Home" church. This isbasically the only church my kids have ever known. Two of my children have beendedicated here. My girls have been baptized here. My daughter wascrowned an Honor Star here. My kids have their best friends here. We have seen our youth group grow up and become wonderful adults. We have been a part of graduations, weddings, prayed through sickness, sat in waiting rooms of many hospitals, cried with friends, and hugged through funerals. We have lived life here for almost 10 years. We love our church. We love our family!

Christmas program at our church.

We have been truly blessed. I have to brag about my family. I have never been in a church that has had so much unity in my life. Theyare full of compassion and love the work of Christ. They have such astrong heart for missions and the lost. Any problems we have had havebeen so small that they have not interfered with anything. We have themost loving church I have ever been a part of. Frankly, I have neverheard of such a church in my life; but here we have been for the last 10 years. They are my family and my friends.

I love, love, love Girl's Ministries!

Our church is going to be very involved with our new church; but it does notchange the fact that we will not live here anymore. We have already gonethrough a string of "last time" events and I have had to choke backthe tears over it all. Events like: our last honor star crowning, ourlast STL youth service, our last Girl's Ministry Sleepover, our last Thanksgivingdinner, our last fun Christmas program, our last beautiful Christmas Eve service, our last always fun youth Christmas Party andjust recently our last Missions Banquet. There will be many "lasttimes" in the days to come. As our last Sunday approaches (sadlymuch faster than I think it will) it will become more and more hard to keepback the tears.

Wednesday night with the students.

I feel like that kid in college, with this whole church plantingadventure. I know God is calling us and I am truly excited about thisphase of life. I feel like our church is like my dad. They arethrilled about God's calling on us and are excited about this new adventure;but are going to miss us deeply. It is the next phase of life we all need to gothrough; but it does not mean that it does not come with some pain.

So, this is how I will end part one of this post....

God this is our prayer for our church. Thank you so much for allowing us the honor of being a part of such abeautiful family of Christ. Thank you for giving us lifetimefriends. Thank you for teaching us what true unity looks like. Thank you for letting us see what a healthy church is like. Thank you forthese precious, precious people you have given to us. We have been changedfor the better; because of there beautiful hearts. Thank you for the greatthings You are going to do in there lives; because they have heard and havelistened to the call to spread the "Good News". Bless them Lordwith all that you can give. They have blessed us in more ways then theywill ever know, thank you for that, Lord. May this verse ring true in theirlives...

Numbers 6:24-25

‘May the LORD bless you
and protect you.
May the LORD smile on you
and be gracious to you.

John in the Dominican, with some of youth, on a missions trip.

Thank you Lord for the beautiful body of Christ!

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2012-02-09T14:18:00.000-05:00

Posted on our youth groups blog today....

Fruity Pebbles and Weird Girls!

Enjoy and...

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New Business and Birthday Party Surprises!

2012-02-08T11:54:00.000-05:00

We are deep into some really fun stuff around here. I am actually really excited about it.

One of my daughters decided that she wanted to give a HUGE amount of money to missions. Actually, she said that God told her she needed to raise this HUGE amount. So, be checking back to see how she is going to raise this money for our missionaries.

Lets just say it has a little to do some very sticky fingers and with this....

A great business plan...

And some great creativity....

Oh and one little girl will be turning 9 next week. She came up with a great birthday party theme. She is really making me work hard on this one. Hahahahaha

Shhhhhh it is going to stay confidential until next week....

Oh and the following suspects may or may not be involved with the crime.

Hahahahahaha what a hoot around here these days.

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Dear Moms and Dads of Girls,

2012-02-08T10:58:00.000-05:00

This is a little longer than my normal post. So, get a cup of coffee, that chocolate you have stashed for a rainy day, and take some time to read this very important post.

I have been meaning to write this post for some timenow. I feel impressed to get it outnow. My heart has been deeply concernedabout the state of our young girls. Myhusband and I have been youth pastoring for 15 years now and we have seen a lotchange over the years regarding our young daughters. I am talking just aboutgirls raised in Christian homes in this post. However, If you are not a Christ follower there are some really great things you can glean from this as well.

My daughter is in the sixth grade and she goes to a publicjunior high school. This year one of herclose friends (we will call her Amy for the sake of this post) is beingbullied. Her friend Amy has been toldthat she should sleep with her boyfriend; because that is what you are just supposedto do. Amy has been told she shouldstart drinking. Amy has been ‘hit on” bythis girl bully. Because Amy has decidedto take a stand and not participate in these things, she is being bullied allat the age of 12.

This post is not about what the media portrays women shouldlook like. This post is not about ourover sexualized youth. It is not aboutthe internet or even peer pressure. Itis about what are we doing about raising our beautiful daughters to be strongwomen of God.

Time and time again, John and I are helping girls deal withbreaking up with their boyfriends and they are barely 13. We constantly see girls who are already defeated bywhat the world thinks of them. We hearof girls who trade in their values just so they can feel loved. We constantly see a battle in them about whothey are in Christ and with the world. The age of the start of these problems is getting lower and lower. Moms and dads it is time to wake up andstart teaching our girls to find their value in Christ.

Parents we need to be aware, actively aware. We have found that parents are just notpaying attention. Recently, in our youthgroup we asked, “How many of you know someone who is sexually active now or hasbeen?” Out of a room of 25, more thanhalf jr. highers, 80% of them raised their hand. These are church kids, in middle America, in a small town. Iwould dare say that more than half of our youth have unmonitored access tointernet. Most of our kids in our youthgroup barely know why they believe what they believe. Junior highers are askingquestions I would never even have thought of when I was in high school. Go here to check out some of those questions. Our kids are growing up in avery different world; but our God never changes.

Okay, Christina so what do we do about it? I think we need to teach them some very keyattributes.

Modesty ismore then just not wearing short skirts and low cut shirts. Modesty is about how your daughter seesherself. Too many girls do not see theirbody as an act of worship. Our bodiesare to bring glory to God, not to get attention from people. I love this verse...

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such asbraided hair and the wearing of gold and fine jewelry and fine clothes. Insteadit should be that of your inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is ofgreat worth in God's sight! I Peter 3:3-4

Every girl needs to find their Identity/Value in Christ alone. If we look for value from others, we willonly leave empty. Christ fills ourvoid. He gives us purpose. He created us. He knows us. We are precious to Him!

Psalm 139:14-18
¹⁴ Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
      Your workmanship is marvelous—how well Iknow it.
¹⁵ You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion,
      as I was woven together in the dark of thewomb.
¹⁶ You saw me before I was born.
      Every day of my life was recorded in yourbook.
   Every moment was laid out
      before a single day had passed.

¹⁷ How precious are your thoughts about me, O God.
      They cannot be numbered!
¹⁸ I can’t even count them;
      they outnumber the grains of sand!
   And when I wake up,
      you are still with me!

True Beauty/Purityonly comes from a life yielded to Christ. When we allow Christ to make us new, He comes in and does a cleansweep. He makes beautiful from theinside out. We radiate because the light of Christ lives in us. I tell girls you can be beautifulto the human eye on the outside; but really ugly on the inside. The ugly onthe inside will then overshadow the beauty on the outside. Fear the Lord and you will be beautiful toChrist!

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears theLord is to be praise.

–Proverbs 31:30

You daughter needs to know that she is a part of God’s Plan. Too many girls are only living forthemselves, mostly because at such a young that is what they are able tounderstand. They live in the moment, notthinking about consequences. As parentswe need to teach them that God has a perfect plan for them. Each girl needs to learn to listen to thevoice of the Lord. He will guide them. He will lead them to the good life He has for them.

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “Theyare plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and ahope.-Jeremiah 29:11

Thoughts canbring life and death to our girls. Iasked about 60 girls what they thought about themselves when they look in themirror. Here are just some of the answers I heard: fat, ugly, stupid, unloved,hate, not good enough, dumb, useless, worthless, nothing, the list went on andon. (You can read my blog about it here) What does your daughter say toherself? Have you ever asked her? Hopefully, she knows exactly what God saysabout her. If not, help your daughter tounderstand how God sees her and begin to help her change her thoughts. Here is a great verse for that….

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughtson what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable.Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. –Philippians 4:8

Mom and Dad your daughter is desperate for you to lead them, to help them,and to love them. We need tointentionally encourage them. Asparents we also need to be the main adult presence in their preciouslives. That may mean Mom you take sometime and sit down with your daughter and talk to her about how she seesherself. Dad it may mean taking sometimeout of your busy schedule and take that lovely girl out on a date. Mom and dad it is time to be examples of Christ followers. They are watching and learning from you.

It is time to wake ourselves up from our slumber; we need to realize that weneed to parent our girls. We need to doit now, even at a very young age and even if we have missed out and they areolder. It is never to late. We need to actively train our girls in theLord. We need to teach them God’sways. We need to pray for them. We need to help them become the strong Godlywoman that Christ desires for them to be.

Your girl can change the world!

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I love this song 

Our Kids and the BIG NEWS

2012-02-06T17:14:00.000-05:00

Hanging out by the cool fountain downtown.

One of my biggest concerns about church planting was, "How wereour kids going to take the big news?" Wehave been so blessed to be youth pastoring in our current home church foralmost 10 years. That is right folks 10years…that is unheard of for a youth pastor these days. My children are 11, 9 (this month) and 3; soas you can see this is the only town, church, schools they have everknown. All you moms out there nowunderstand how much this broke my heart.

Playing with all the doors at the HUGE antique mall!

I was concerned about so many things. Are they going to like Bay City? Are they going to find good Christian friends? Are they going to be mad at us…especially myjunior higher? Are they going to beangry, sad, upset? What if they do notwant to go? Will leaving their bestfriends break their hearts? To say theleast I was worried.

John and I decided about a year ago to begin to lay theground work with them about the idea of moving. We figured that if we just waited and “dropped the bomb” on them withoutany inclinations of moving that it was going to backfire on us. Plans need tobe made to make this an easy transition for us and for them. We wanted God to be in every part of this newadventure, even in the hearts of our children.

Eating our yummy candy from the awesome candy shop.

Creating excitement about new adventures was our firststep. I think approaching things withthe right attitude seems to make all the difference in the world. We purposely tried to create excitement withanything new throughout the year at swimming lessons, on vacations, andanything they faced that was different. We also talked about how cool it would be to have a new house or even anew church someday. We asked them todream about what things might look like or be like. We even spent some fun days in our new city; the big candyshop sure did help. John and I always tried to keep a very positive spin.

Exploring new places and seeing new friends.

Secondly, God’s call is really important to us and it isimportant to our kids as well. If God iscalling us to do a different ministry, then He is calling them too. We want our children to hear from God what Hewould want us to do and where He wants us to go. There is nothing more that I want then forthem to have ownership in God’s business. Obedience is just as important as hearing God’s call. Our little ones need to understand that whenGod asks us to do something, even if it is hard or hurts, we need to do it.

Next, I began to realize that we need to allow them to feel. If they are angry, they need to expressit. If they are sad, they may need tocry. If they are hurting, they may needus to give them a break. With all thesefeelings, we need to help them release them in a good and productive ways. So, we have been very sensitive to allow themfeel the things they need to feel about this move.

Lastly, the key to help our children to have a successfultransition to a new home is to bath them in prayer. If you do not do anything else, please prayfor your kids. We could read all thebooks, scour the internet for help, or even take them to a counselor; but if wedo not get the Lord involved then all our efforts are in vain. God will do so much more than anything Icould ever contrive. He will preparetheir hearts. He will comfort theirsadness. He will love them in theperfect way they need to feel love.

I remember the day before we actually told the kids we weremoving. I spent some time at the altarat church. I wept for quite sometime. I was so worried about breakingtheir little hearts. God reminded me ofHis love for them. In fact, He remindedme that He loved them more than me. I just needed to trust Him. It is so hard for me to imagine that He lovesthem more…but He does! WOW! He had this in control and I needed to leavemy worries at the foot of the cross.

Taking a walk in the beautiful state park with grandpa & grandma

When we told the kids, they took the news far better than Icould have imagined. Of course theycried; but, they were excited. We haveour moments of sadness and we all take some time to feel it. But, I am happy to say that they truly are“all about” doing God’s will. I like tosay that is because of my great parenting skills; but, that would be totallywrong. I truly believe my kids respondedthe way they did; because of God’s faithfulness and our obedience.

God’s not just calling John and I, He is calling even the11, almost 9 and 3 year old! He has aplan for all of us.

Lake Huron

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD.“They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

We will be obedient,listen, follow and

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2012-02-03T13:54:00.000-05:00

I love this prayer of Moses in Exodus 33,

This is my prayer today!

May, I find your favor and..

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Picture taken by my friend Nicole Dee

My Boring Testimony

2012-02-02T20:31:00.003-05:00

One of our friends that is a pastor in New York at Brooklyn Tabernacle posted this the other day...

"My goal in parenting is to raise my kids to have a boring testimony..... In other words, to stay out of trouble and love Jesus all their lives. Exciting, I know. But actually, it really should be exciting. I know that in the church we usually privilege and promote Christian horror stories where God brings someone back from the edge of doom. They’re compelling. Heart-tugging. But they’re also heartbreaking. Trust me, the stories that bring an audience to tears brought far more tears to the parents who had to watch their kids live them. You don’t want that pain, for you or your kids. And while God can certainly turn our mistakes into miracles, I think He’d still prefer to turn our obedience into an opportunity. An opportunity to show that He’s not only worth coming back to, but also worth never leaving in the first place.

It’s just that I’d prefer that my kids change the world without having to have the world first change them. A person’s testimony doesn’t have to be spectacularly sinful to be significant. I hope and pray my kids will have a boring testimony. I hope and pray the same thing for yours too. We don’t have full control over whether it will happen. They will ultimately make their own choices. But with all of our power as parents, let’s work and live to see our goal realized. Our kids will thank us. We’ll thank ourselves. And ultimately we’ll all thank God."-Reposted from Pastor Tim Dilena

Can I tell you how much I love this?! Because I have always considered my testimony to be boring! As I was growing up, I always thought that a more interesting testimony would draw people to Christ. I thought mine would never make a difference; but, in countless ways it has.

So, here is my boring testimony....

I grew up in a Christian home. I heard the stories of Jesus and His great love for me before I can even remember. I know this; because, I know my parents. They love Christ and they shared His love for me the day I was born. One of my earliest memories is of me swinging on my swing trying to go as high as the white puffy clouds in the blue sky above. While pumping my little legs back and forth, my little voice sang out a made up song, "Jesus, I love you...I love you."

My mom told me that I asked Jesus in my heart at a VBS at the age of four. I don't really have a memory of this; however, my parents were laying the ground work for me to have as many opportunities as possible to hear the gospel. Jesus was such a central part of our home.

I remember in the third grade in kid's church a man telling me that I had to choose to follow Christ. I remember very clearly God speaking to my heart about His love for me. He told me He died for me. He told me that He wanted me to live for Him. I decided to be a follower of Christ that day.

When I was a little older I stood in front of a congregation and told them how much I loved Jesus. I then was baptized. I remember coming out of the water and knowing that I was a new person. I was His and He was mine.

In the 8th grade, I did a little doubting. I did a little searching; but nothing to much to write home about. Enough to rededicate my life to Him never to waver again. Jesus was everything to me. I serve Jesus because I choose to....not because my parents ever made me....not because I am afraid of hell....not because it seems like a good thing to do...only because He loves me.

In Jr. high, I was miraculously healed. In high school, I was called into full time ministry. I was also miraculously saved in a car accident. In college, I married a pastor. Last year, I received my license as a minister of the Gospel. That is my life, plain and simple.

Even though my testimony may seem boring....

I do know this that I was a sinner. I was someone who was in desperate need of a Savior. Even at a young age I realized this. I was lost. I was alone. I was in need. I was no better than the worst of sinners. I was without God. When I realized those things, I gave my life to Him. We do not deserve His love or forgiveness; but, yet He gives it freely when we come to Him.

Woven through that testimony of mine is GRACE! God's grace to keep me, to carry me, and to hold me. I have never taken my boring testimony for granted. I actually have always said, "It is by His grace that I have it". My godly parents provided the opportunity and my heavenly father allowed me to experience it. Now that I have children, I hope that they will also have a boring testimony like me.

Every testimony is important! Maybe, your testimony is boring or full of what people may think is not boring! Which ever the case maybe, we are all saved by the same amount of Grace, the blood of Jesus Christ that was shed on a cross for us. Tell others your testimony. Tell others about Grace. Tell others about what Jesus has done in you and for you.

What is your testimony?

and.....

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Diary of a Wimpy Church Planter

2012-01-30T13:20:00.010-05:00

My daughters love the book series “Diary of a Wimpy Kid” by Jeff Kinney. If you have never read the books, they are all about a kid starting out in junior high. He experiences all sorts of fun, pitfalls, awkward situations, struggles, embarrassing moments, and new people. Honestly, the books are a hoot! We have had quite a few good laughs over them. I also love, love, love the fun illustrations found through out the books. Nice book review; but what does that have to do with planting a church (Christian-ease for starting a new church)?????

Since we are in the very beginning stages of church planting, I find that I feel just like a wimpy junior higher. Do you remember those days? My daughter just started junior high last fall. She is no wimp though. She is doing great. She has all A’s, Vice President of her class, and has many friends. I did okay as a junior higher; but, I remember being very nervous about changing classes, the fresh crop of zits on my face, and if people would like me. Everything was different and I was facing all sorts of new life situations. I was no longer in elementary, no more snacks, loving teachers, and same old same old routine.

When God called us to be church planters a few years ago, I immediately was freaked out. We had been doing youth ministry for so long that I was comfortable. I know how to do youth ministry well enough to do it with my eyes closed. I know how much pizza to order for 30 kids. I know that the junior high boys are the reason for the stink in the youth room. I even like know how to effectively communicate a lesson with like 10 junior high girls while they are like texting to each other. I have talked to so many broken hearts that I can repeat, “God has a perfect person for you, just you wait!” while standing on my head. I have even lived through some all- nighters to tell about it! BUT, I do not know how to start a new church….YIKES!

I feel wimpy because of what I do not know. I know I have skills that Christ has given me. I know I have gifts and talents to do the ministry. We are heading into new territory, new ministry and a new life in a new city. At times I feel overwhelmed at the magnitude of this new adventure; because I do not know how all the things Christ has equipped me with are going to fit in the “bigger picture” of things. I do not know how everything is going to turn out. Everything seems so unpredictable and so unknown. What I do know is I feel like a 12 year old kid starting their first day of school in junior high.

But, I think God has me right where He wants me. I could know all the statistics, all the graphs, and all the bell curves for church planting. I could read all the books, blogs, and attend all the seminars and be really successful. While all those things are good and even necessary, if I do not realize that it is God who does the work then I AM nothing more than a wimpy church planter. I am reminded of one of the verses of the greatest church planter of all time, the Apostle Paul

2 Corinthians 12

¹⁰ That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

It is in my weakness Christ makes me strong. It is in my wimpiness (Christina-ism) that God can do anything with me. When I realize that I am just an empty vessel to be used by him then He can do something with me. If I just step out of the way then I can watch Christ build His church. Huh! Why did I not think of that before? It is not about me, it is all about Christ. I just need to be obedient.

I just finished reading the story of Moses and the burning bush in Exodus. I can relate to how Moses must have felt when God asked him to go before Pharaoh and ask him to release the Israelites from slavery. It must have seemed too big of a task to Moses; because we read about Moses giving his excuses of why God should not use him. But, Moses in his wimpiness is still obedient to the great I AM and a whole nation is brought into the promise land. What amazing things can God do when I am obedient?

I can not wait to find out!!!!! Maybe just maybe, I will get to see a whole city follow Christ!

Philippians 4:13

¹³ For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

And in His strength I will…

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Illustrations done by me! LOL

Raising Funds for Our Church Plant

2012-01-24T10:37:00.005-05:00

We are a third of the way to being able to receive matching funds! How awesome is that?!

We can receive matching funds up to $30,000.00! Our first goal is to reach that $30,000 mark. Any funds received above that goal will help support our church for the first year of ministry. If you would like to partner with us in planting a church in Bay City; please, email us at baycityag@yahoo.com. We are a Home Missions church with the Assemblies of God.

Mail checks to Michigan District Office
31500 W. 13 Mile Rd., Ste. 140
Farmington Hills, MI 48334

Make them out to AOGMI and in the memo line write Bay City – 4557-C

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A New Adventure

2012-01-24T08:52:00.008-05:00

There is a lot going on around our home the past few months. I am so excited to now be able to share with my friends, family and bloggers the new adventure we have begun. John and I have been approved to start a new church in Bay City, Whoo HOOO! Whew, it is so good to finally be able to write that! We have not made that public knowledge for so long. It is nice to be able to say it freely.

We actually began moving in the direction of planting a church (Christian way of saying we are starting a new church) quite a few years ago. We felt that this was the next thing for us, after being in youth ministry for 15 years. (Wow, 15 years in youth ministry that is so crazy….that it has been that long. That’s a lot of pizza. LOL) Over the last few years, God has really defined for us this new direction He is leading us in.

The timeline is that we hope to be in our new home this summer; but, there is a lot to be done before we make the big move. Our current church is partnering with us and will be a part of “sending” us. The Assemblies of God has approved us to take on this new venture. We have asked for their assistance and there are a few things we must accomplish over the next 6 months or so to be ready for Bay City. Some of those things are:

Raising over $30,000 dollars
Go to more training
Come up with a game plan to involve local Assembly of God churches to be a part of this awesome opportunity to do some God things in Bay City.
Define our vision and goals
Begin doing ministry and reaching out to the community of our new home.
Leave our current church equipped to continue the ministry. (They are so awesome! We are truly blessed and we are going to miss them greatly.)
Sell our home and find a new one.

God is already helping us reach some of these goals! He is so cool like that. We have raised $7,000.00 already. YEAH! We have some great leadership teams in our current church that can carry on awesome ministry. We are going for training at the end of March. And God is already developing a team to go with us to Bay City. How awesome is that?!

I will be telling our story of our new adventure right here on Get JOY! Check in with us and read all about how God lead us here, how He is directing us and the exciting things He is going to do. I already know He has some great things in store for all of us!

Getting busy about the Kingdom….

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(The pictures are from Bay City this past fall.)

Be looking for some upcoming blog post…

How we are doing in raising our funds

Church Plant Funds

1. The Call

"Diary of a Wimpy Church Planter"

2. The “BIG MOVE” for Our Kids!
"Our Kids and the BIG MOVE"

3. Saying Goodbyes
"Saying Hello also means Saying Goodbye" part 1

Find Out What Teens Are Asking????

2012-01-13T18:49:00.002-05:00

I have been posting on my hubby's blog. I have helping with our Wednesday Night program "Random" for youth for the past several months. Here are some of the questions they are asking....

Friends with Gay People, Bullies & Hearing from God????

Go and check out the discussion!

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B-Ball Season

2012-01-07T20:47:00.011-05:00

It is basket ball season once again in our home.
Time to dust off the basket ball,
dig out the shoes,
and put on the uniform.

In this story there is the....

The Team
The Coach
(Wow, I just think my hubby is just too adorable for words)
The Player
(She is one tough, amazing, hardworking girl... I am so proud of her)

Best Friends
(Playing together is too fun!)
And of course the Fans! GO BLUE!

God's blessings of family and having fun together help me....
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Heaven's Voice Featured

2012-01-06T10:12:00.003-05:00

My hubby's cousin, Dawn Kidd, is an author and a blogger. If you have lost a child or know someone who has; she has written a book entitled, "You Are Not Alone". It is her story of losing two infant children. Her blog is dedicated to helping everyone who has felt the pain of the loss or sickness of children. She featured my miscarriage story today. I am honored to share my story with her and her readers. I would like to share that link with you as well. Please, take some time and click on over to her blog today.

Focused On Their Faith ~ Meet Christina Johnson

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The Heart of "I'm Sorry!"

2012-01-05T12:06:00.004-05:00

I have three kids and there is a lot of fighting sometimes...A LOT! With all that fighting come many half hearted apologies.

"Sorry!" will be mumbled

as the huff off to their room

with their arms crossed

feet stomping on the floor

can be common with kids (well mine anyways).

My hubby and I are always trying to teach them what is a meaningful apology. However, I think that sometimes what we teach gets lost in the heat of "Mom, she hit me...But she hit me first" scenarios.

One of my kids is a junior high girl. (Yikes, I can't believe I just wrote that! Time is flying and I better be paying attention.) Like all good junior highers, she had a melt down last Sunday morning. I was trying to be sympathetic, she did stay up for New Years Eve. She was being a bear and crossed several lines as we were getting ready for church. She ended up getting grounded for the day. I hate doing that; but, I had to do it. Let's just say it was a very frustrating first morning of the New Year. All I could think was "Good morning 2012, I have a pre-teen...ugh!"

Man, what a morning! At church I was getting the cold shoulder from her. Then something quite special happened. I reached over and put my hand in hers. Thankfully, she didn't push it away. A few moments later, I felt her writing something with her finger on my hand. She wrote out, "I'm sorry". If I wasn't paying attention, or let the tickling movement of her finger annoy me or decided it was nothing...I would have missed a precious moment with her.

I don't know what caused her heart to change. I know it wasn't because I made her apologize. Maybe it was something the pastor said or it was a song that we sang that changed her heart. Or maybe...just maybe...she allowed the Holy Spirit speak to her heart. I will never know. I do know that she felt sorry and it was from her heart even if it came in the form of little scribbles on my hand. I leaned over (trying not to tear up) and whispered in her ear, "I forgive you."

I have been thinking about what happened between my daughter and me over the last few days. I have been challenged by her. I have been challenged to ask for forgiveness when I have wronged someone. I have learned to let go of my anger and make things right. I have learned that even if it is hard or hurts do it .....anyway I can.

I tried all morning at church to reach out to her, even when I knew she wanted to have nothing to do with me. I tried little things. I tried big things. I just decided to be there when she was ready.

And then God showed me that He is like that with us. He wants to forgive. He is waiting to forgive. He does everything in His power to provide us an opportunity to receive His forgiveness, His love, His compassion.

Romans 5:8

⁸ But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

If all we can do is scribble "I'm sorry" under the weight of our guilt and shame; He doesn't wait to whisper to us, "I forgive you!" In fact, all of heaven rejoices when one sinner repents and comes to Christ.

Luke 15:7

⁷ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.

God's love is big and wide. No matter what you have done or how bad it seems, God wants to forgive you and have a relationship with you. All we need to do is say, "I'm sorry!"

John 3:16

¹⁶ For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

God's forgiveness is what helps me....

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Reflecting on Christmas

2012-01-04T10:44:00.015-05:00

My dear friend, Jenilee, inspired me to write a blog. Go check out her Christmas Memories. My camera is a window into our lives for others to see. So enjoy peeking through the window and seeing what Christmas looked like for our family in Northern Michigan.
We usually don't have the opportunity to spend Christmas at our home. We are typically on vacation down at our parent's homes during the holidays. Not this year, Christmas fell on a Sunday so that means my hubby, a pastor, needed to be at church. I actually am very excited when this happens; because we get to have Christmas here. My parents and sister decided to come up and join us. Our Christmas started on Saturday and the celebrations didn't stop until New Years day. It was like a week long party....how fun is that!!!!!!
We took a vote and decided to do Christmas gifts on Saturday. We wanted more time and Christmas morning was going to be spent mostly at church. We had a nice time opening gifts and then had our traditional Christmas brunch.....YUM! It was also snowing, can I say, "Perfect?!" Oh, if you are wondering about the wizard below, that would be my genius dad! Hahahaha He declared himself at "Wizard" status at work one day....and every good wizard needs wizard things...so he got a basket full. Tehehehehehehe
Christmas morning we opened stocking stuff and headed over to church. We had a wonderful time in God's house and celebrating Jesus, "The Heart of Christmas". Our pastor had the platform set up like a living room all decorated for Christmas. He had all the kids come and sit on the couch and on the floor around him while he shared clips from old Christmas movies. The kids loved it! He then shared that while all these nice Christmas ideas are good; the true heart of Christmas is Jesus. Jesus is the best gift of Christmas! It was so nice to spend Christmas morning with my family and my church family. We then drove down state to my parents to finish a perfect warm sunny day!
My lovely mom had their home cozy and beautiful for the end of the day Christmas celebration. We all had fun playing with our new toys and relaxing after a long eventful day. My sister loves her new camera...she has a lot to learn before her big trip to Israel in 3 months. It was fun watching her try it out. My daughter enjoyed her new yarn; she got to work right away on a new scarf! John of course enjoying his Christmas Mt. Dew and sports...doesn't get much better than that.
We rang in the New Year with John's parents and family. Such sweet moments with cousins and relatives are priceless. Notice that John and I are the only adults that participated in the family silly picture. What is up with that????? Hahahahaha In some ways, I am not surprised. And if you know us you are not either.
We were even able to visit with my dear grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins during the week. Notice the fun picture of the kids at Aunt Jenni's home. They had a sleepover in a tent they created. How fun is that?!
Loving my Savior, my family and all His blessings all through the Christmas season!
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Disclaimer: Now before you all think my life is perfect, or any bloggers Christmas post for that matter, very few people write about all the things that go wrong during the holidays. You don’t want to hear about my grumpy, fighting, tired kids (yeah, I am talking about those adorable children in the pictures above). You don’t want to hear about my short temper when things get stressed. We all deal with that stuff. Keep in mind when reading these types of blogs that the purpose is to focus on all the Good that God is and how He sustains us when things are difficult. Because let me tell you, I had some whining kids…and He kept me sane. hehehehehehe

I love Christmas

2011-12-21T00:11:00.021-05:00

This past weekend was full of Christmassy things, like 2 Christmas programs and a all night youth Christmas party... So I will sing my blog with a song that I sang with my choir on Monday night. (I guess it is more like I will write out the lyrics to my solo than actually sing them...tehehehe)

I love Christmas
and all the joy it brings.
Celebrating, Jesus King of Kings!
Jesus came bringing love
and bringing peace
and bringing joy to us...
I love Christmas.
It is not about the carols
or presents by the Christmas tree
It's all about the promise He's brought for you and me.
That's why I love Christmas and all the joy it brings!
Celebrating, Jesus King of Kings!
Jesus came bringing love

and bringing peace

and bringing joy to us...
I love Christmas.

Jesus is the reason for the season and He alone helps us....
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2011 Ornament Reveal

2011-12-06T14:09:00.019-05:00

It is that time of year again to pull the big box out of the garage and get to work. However, I think that this work may be the most fun work on the planet. We love putting up our Christmas tree!

The girls just love going through their boxes, reminiscing over old ornaments and hanging them on the tree.

So on to our Ornament Picks for 2011!!!!!!!!!

Ohh...Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?
Absorbent and yellow and porous is he
If nautical nonsense be something you wish
Then flop on the deck and plop like a fish...... "Spongebob Squarepants"

My little 3 year old man had to have him for his ornament. I tried many times to talk him out of it...but to no avail!

So on our tree hangs a yellow sponge with his tongue sticking out at me every day....I think Bob mocks me.

To add to her growing collection of horses my 8 year old picked this pretty white filly.

I think we scoured all of Bronners to find this frozen treat for my 11 year old. I'm not kidding...I think we looked at every bulb before she picked this one.

This ornament belongs to my husband. We purchased it in the Bahamas where the girls and John went swimming with the dolphins. What a great memory.

My ornament choice was this under the sea themed bulb. It is to remember the great sabbatical we had and all the time we spent in the ocean.

And here is the result of all of our efforts. They were really helpful....well maybe not the short one; but we will give him a break. The Christmas season is full swing in our home now!!!

Oooooo their faces help me...

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2010 Ornaments

2009 Ornaments

2011-12-01T12:09:00.003-05:00

Hey, so I am posting twice a month on my hubby's blog for teenagers. Every Wednesday night at our church we have what we call "Random". Students can ask any question about anything. We then discuss it and give a biblical answer. If you have a teenager or will soon have one....go check it out for great advice, questions teens are asking and biblical truths to help give answers!

Our topic for this week...

"Hey, No question is too stupid when it comes to Marriage, Dating or Modesty!"

Always....
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Thanksgiving Picture Story

2011-11-29T13:10:00.012-05:00

Stop...No more reading blogs about thanksgiving, this one is a picture story of our day of thanks...enjoy, it will only take a minute. You are welcome, I know you are all busy now that the holiday season has begun. I mean who has time to read a bunch of blogs now that Christmas is only 26 days away!

Our story begins the night before getting the stuffing ready for the bird took several people to finish.
Even the young ones got to help prepare the food! Yeah for pies! Whoo HOOO!
Of course there was Rudy to be mashed!
and many, many, many .....so many potatoes to be peeled.
and turkey's that needed to be lovingly cooked!

Here is what is on the menu for 22 people...2 Turkeys, 35 potatoes, 2 Rutabagas, tons of stuffing, a pot of beans, a pot of corn, sweet potato casserole, orange shimmering jello, fruit salad, pickles, carrots, celery, 36 rolls, a gallon of gravy, apple crisp, 1 apple pie, 1 cherry pie, 2 banana cream pies, 2 pumpkin pies and enough leftovers to feed us for the rest of the weekend.
Eating the food, we took most of the day to cook, is a yummy way finish to a wonderful day!Of course we also participated in the timely tradition of watching our Lions lose again!
All the cousins had fun just hanging out at Grandma and Grandpa's playing games and goofing around.

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and took some time to reflect on all that you are thankful for. Here is one of the things we found on our thanksgiving table..... (the card not the child)
Ditto on the last line! Thank you Lord for all that you have given to me and my family. Lord, you help my really, truly....
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Ooooo I will leave you with one last thing, my favorite facebook status last week....

My daughter asked at the dinner table the other night, "Can we eat less food for the next couple of days so I can eat more on Thanksgiving day?" I think she was trying to get out of eating her veggies at the moment. But my hubby answered, "You really need to eat a lot of food to stretch out your stomach so you can fit more food in." Yikes, life lessons at our house....Ugh!

Not Me Monday - What Is Worse than Mosquitoes?

2011-10-24T07:13:00.001-04:00

My daughter would not come to talk to me at 10 pm Wednesday night and inform me that her head has been really itchy for the last several WEEKS! I would not then ask her why she waited so long to tell me. She would not then reply, " I kept forgetting!"

I would not then discover something far worse than misquitos....LICE!

I would not spend the next several days in combat with this wretched Phthiraptera!

I would never be jealous of my husband's shaved head. I would not have to treat everyone except him....grrrrrr!

I would never pray to God that Harold Camping was right on Friday. I would not be totally up for the end of the world just to avoid being buried in laundry and never ending cleaning.

I would not still be washing four days later and probably won't be done for two more.

My kitchen would not have at least 9 garbage bags of linens and things still waiting to be washed...Nope Not This MOM!
My couch would not become clean laundry central. I would not have piles and piles on it right now as I write this blog.... I would never let that happen.

I would not pick through my oldest daughter's hair for three hours. I would not do two treatments on her an all natural one and then a store bought one. I would not have to call her three friends moms and tell them the news and apologize profusely.

I would not then just shave off my son's adorable hair to avoid a temper tantrum beyond what this poor mom could handle. He cried like I was doing the worse thing to him the world while shaving his head. I would not think he still looks adorable with the big brown eyes....I would never be that drastic Not Me!

I would not cut off 10 inches off of this girl's head to avoid torturous screaming and crying as I picked through her hair....No, not this mama! I would not kind of make a mistake when I cut her hair and cut it way to short. I would not panic. I would not pretend to be a hairdresser and fix it. I would not sorta succeed because I would be far too embarrassed to take her to a real hair dresser and say could you fix this. I would then not have someone at church compliment my haircutting skills and say they would come to me for a hair cut hahahahahaha that would never happen. And of course my daughter would not like her new do... no way, not her!

My dear sweet hubby did not buy me beautiful red roses to help me feel a better during all this. He is not that sweet...not my hubby!

I would not be still scratching my head like crazy...Nope Not Me!

Argh...Lice...does not give me joy. But me killing lice totally helps me....

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The "HOT" Christmas Items for 2011!

2011-10-18T15:55:00.031-04:00

It is hard to believe that there is only 67 shopping days until Christmas! Now, some of you may think it is a little early to be shopping; but I say,"No Way!" I like to start early to find those great deals. I love that my girl's lists are much shorter this year. Hahahaha they are shorter because I told them that last year lists were ridiculous....fun....but ridiculous.

So, here we go...the lists for 2011!

My 11 year old
She is my super crafty kid as you will be able to tell by her list. I think I may have to hit Hobby Lobby on black Friday this year to find her Christmas gifts.

1. Duct Tape & Boxes

2. Yarn

(For the next four, we got this cool catalog in the mail the other day. It has very cool toys and gifts. hearthsong.com)
3. Shooting Stars in My Room

4. Rainbow in My Room

5. Friends Forever Bracelet

6. Kit Pottery Wheel

7. DS Games - Super Mario 64 for Nintendo DS, Super Princess Peach for Nintendo DS

8. DS Skin
9. DS screen protectors

BIG WISH
10. Red/ Orange Digital Camera

My 8 year old
My little girl is growing up; but not totally yet....thank goodness. They are both done with American girl( sigh and a tear); but my young sweetie is still hanging on to her Barbie for dear life.

1. Barbie : Prince ss Charm School Barbie Doll

2. Barbie clothes - Barbie Fashion Sweet Wardrobe - Cheerleader Fun; Barbie Fashion
Sweet Wardrobe - Cheerleader Fun; Exclusive Barbie KidPicks Fashion Assortment with
Barbie Doll - Shopping Fun

3. DS Games:
Phineas & Ferb Across the 2nd Dimension, Barbie Groom and Glam for Pups, Horse
Academy 2, Style Lab Fashion Design

4. Scooter (she is tired of using her sisters) - Razor Wild Style Kick Scooter - Pink

BIG WISH
5. Pink Digital Camera

My 3 year old
My little guys is all about Cars, Toy Story, Thomas and Batman. His all time favorite stuff is Cars! We are pretty excited about the new movie coming out; because that means we can add some variety to our "CARS" viewing!!!! Whoo HOOO! I have only seen the movie like 1,000,000 times... Seriously! Thanks Pixar for making a sequel; which I liked because it was so unlike the first.

1. Cars 2 Movie

2. Cars Sleeping Bag

3. Computer - Toy Story

4. Scooter - Toy Story or Cars

BIG WISH
5. Car - Power Wheels Fisher-Price Super 6 Ride On - Disney Pixar Cars the Movie - Lightning McQueen

Christmas is so much fun and always helps me....
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Fall in My Town!

2011-10-04T13:40:00.018-04:00

We decided to go for a fall ride the other day and take some fun pictures (check out my photo shoot here). I love, love, love fall and here is why I enjoy it so much...

yummy crisp Michigan apples,

cool breezes down by the riverfront,

our quaint downtown,

the last of the flowers before the cold,

and of course the changing color of the leaves!

Fall is my favorite season and it always helps me....
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Photo Shoot 2011

2011-10-01T21:32:00.019-04:00

I am trying to be thrifty and so instead of ordering single pose boring school pictures that I would most likely be unhappy with and want to return...I took my own. I figured since I had this fancy shmancy new camera, I would give it a shot. So, here are my top 15 photos out of like over a hundred....and yes you are welcome that I did not bore you with all of them.

Oh and even though the pictures look so peaceful and loving....think again. There was plenty of fighting, crying, eye rolling, 3 year old un-cooperation, "Spit the apple out...cause you can't smile with a chunk in your cheek", "How many times do I have to tell you to spit the apple out, more crying, 3 year old bad attitudes, "Only a few more pictures...I promise", begging, pleading and "Mom, can we go home now!' good times. Ahahahahaha!

Too cute for words #15-14
Favorite sister shots #13-10
My favorite head shots #9-7
My favorite top 3 head shots...so that makes them #6-#4 in
(see my boy smiling...it was about the only time)

#3
(This is probably the only time he actually wanted his picture taken)
Coming in at #2
(several apples found themselves floating down river today)
#1 most favorite shot of the day!
(this took several and I mean several tries)

Ooo cool fall days and my kids definitely help me....
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Wednesday's Walk - Before the Frost Comes

2011-09-28T00:00:00.000-04:00

This summer I got to take some pretty amazing pictures with my new camera. I love flowers because to me they are God's finishing touches on this earth He created for us. I love to remember flowers, I have many memories attached to flowers....

February birthday week flowers!June flowers in my garden.
July flowers with my family.
August flowers on vacation.
September flowers from a friend.

Flowers are the music of the ground
From earth's lips spoken without sound.
EDWIN CURRAN, "Flowers"

I love all the wonderful memories that go with each of these flowers.
Enjoying God's beautiful creation always helps me....

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Need some ideas for Wednesday's Walk?
1. Is there a flower that holds a special memory for you?
2. What are some stories about flowers or nature you have?

Vote for me, For V.P!

2011-09-23T09:36:00.004-04:00

My daughter's speech today!

Hi, I am running for vice president of the sixth grade class. I would love it if you gave me the opportunity to serve and represent our class. I would make a good vice president for the following three reasons: I am very creative; I am a good worker; I am also very friendly and will be able to work well with a team.

The first reason that you should vote for me is that I am very creative. That means I would be very helpful when it comes to designing and decorating for our events. This also helps me to come up with creative ideas or more efficient ways to get things done. I could make things more interesting for our grade.

Second, I am also a good worker. I have a proven track record of getting my work done well and on time. I would be able to do any tasks the president gives me to do. I was recently awarded the honor of Honor Star in girls ministries at my church. This took a lot of work over the course of several years. I am able to stick to a project even if it takes a long time and a lot of hard work.

Third, I am also very friendly to other people. So I would be great and fun to work with. I get along well with everybody and would be able to work as part of a team. I’m very outgoing and not afraid to try new things.

I look forward to having the opportunity to serve our class as vice president. I hope that you will vote for me. Remember I am a very creative person. I am not afraid of a little hard work. I will do whatever it takes to get the job done. I will also work with the team and be supportive of others in an effort to be the best class council we can be. I hope I can count on you to vote for me for vice president of the sixth grade. Thank you.

Any of you Cosby show fans??? Do you remember the episode when Clare is out of town and Bill helps Rudy with her homework? Do you remember when the teacher calls him in and explains how to "Help" his daughter do her homework...not do her homework? Hahahahahaha that is what happened in our house with this speech. My daughter did not know what her proven track record was until he explained it to her. Hahahahahahaha

Good thing she has a great campaign manager - ME!

A great speech writer - DAD (everybody's speech was like 20 seconds, her's 2min)

And nobody running against her!!!! A SURE VICTORY! WHOO HOO!

A new V.P. in the house....

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OK Pray!

2011-09-23T08:49:00.007-04:00

I spent most of yesterday at Mott's Children's Hospital. One of my 2nd grade girls from church was having major hip surgery. Yes, that is right hip surgery for a 2nd grader!!!!

After trying to find a parking spot and then finding her family, I was brought into the pre-op room. Mom and dad spent most of the time answering questions and asking questions. I knelt down and colored with her the best butterfly ever!

At one point, they had to mark her leg so that there would be no mistake on what side of her hip to work on. She wasn't too happy about that. I told her sometimes I write on my hand. She looked at me and asked why? I told her, "I write on my hand so I don't forget stuff and sometimes I will have a huge list on my hand....it can be pretty funny. "

I then without thinking grabbed a marker and wrote the word, "Pray" on my hand. I told her that I would remember to pray for her during surgery. Without anybody's prompting, she grabbed the blue marker and wrote "OK" on my hand.

Shortly after, they put her in a red wagon, we prayed together and she rode off to surgery. In the waiting room, I brought my crochet project and began working on it. Every time I saw my hand I would pray.

I John 5
¹⁴ And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him.
¹⁵ And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for.

"OK, Pray!" What a simple but profound statement that was to me in that moment in the pre-op area. Instead of worrying, instead of pacing, instead of fretting I was reminded to just "OK, Pray"! So many times we forget that we can go to the very throne of God and tell Him our needs. The God of the universe hears us. He is not far off. He longs to have communication with us we just have to start talking.

"Ok, Pray!" and ...
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Please keep her in your prayers! The surgery was very successful and quick (2 1/2 hours, we were told four)...just what I asked for in prayer. However, she now is in a cast from her belly button down to her right ankle on one side and down to her knee on the left. She will be in bed for the next six weeks, homeschooling and getting bored. This is tough stuff for a second grader.

Wednesday's Walk- Kid's Night

2011-09-21T08:21:00.007-04:00

So, I don't post a lot of stuff about our church...I am going to fix that right now. We just had a Kid's Night not to long ago. We had a great time and I had the opportunity to share Christ with the kids and parents.

We did a bunch of fun things like playing Gigantic Twister,

sliding down the Awesome Inflatable,

eating lots of hot dogs,

and riding the too Cute Horses!

Wednesday's Walk ideas if you are all out...
Do you have any memories of a church event?
Do you have any memories of a person at church that was special to you?

I love our church and our people who go there. We are blessed and they help me....
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Wednesday's Walk - One is Silver and the Other Gold.

2011-09-14T08:52:00.008-04:00

When I was little girl there was this song in Girls Scouts that I learned.....
Make new friends
but keep the old.
One is silver and the other Gold.

I got to see my best friend from High School on Monday. I have not seen her in 17 years. Yikes, there is a lot to catch up on in an hour and a half during breakfast.

But, you know those people that you can go for years not seeing and when you get together you can pick up right where you left off. I felt like that with my dear friend Alanna. I had such a wonderful time talking about our hubbies, children, parents, jobs and a bunch more. It was a great time.

There was a few moments that I got really sad; because I wished we could have these moments all the time. After a few tears shed on the way home, I thanked God that this life is but a moment and I someday in heaven I can spend all the time I want with her and miles won't keep us apart. It made me smile.

Thank you Lord for the beautiful friends you bring into our lives, who make this journey sweeter.

Ideas for Wednesday's Walk if you can't think of any....
Do you have stories of reunions with old friends?
What is your favorite BFF story?

Precious, cherished Friendships always help me...
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Wednesday's Walk - My Star!

2011-09-07T01:08:00.005-04:00

Tonight, my daughter became an Honor Star. In our church it is kind of a confirmation in a way if you are not familiar with the Assemblies of God. She worked really hard to receive various honors, medals and crown. She had to memorize verses, earn badges, read the New Testament and a ton of extra stuff.

She was so excited and we are so proud of her. (By the way, I did her hair with the help of my sister. I went on youtube and learned how to do the updo.) She was so cute tonight.

My daughter gives me joy.
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Back to School 2011

2011-09-06T08:41:00.010-04:00

So, my kids are a riot! The first day of school they get up with no complaining, no crying ...no problem. They get dressed without me begging. They brush their teeth without my prompting. We don't rush around looking for lost shoes. They are ready to go 15 minutes early. I could stay in bed and they would get there on their own if they could drive.

But when the 2nd day of school happens it all goes away. Back to school ....Back to reality!

I will....
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Some cute and funny things...
My 3 year old son slept through all of the getting ready for school this morning. When he woke up he went in the girls room and said, "Girls, get up....1, 2, 3! That is usually what I have to say to them on the second day of school until the last. Then I had to tell them they were already gone. He had to investigate their beds to make sure. Hahahahahahaha

While I was taking pictures of the girls, my new Jr. Higher starts singing, "Is this the little girl I carried.......Sunrise, Sunset." My hubby asks, "Is she singing what I think she is singing?" And then we all busted out laughing. I think...nope, I know....she was making fun of us. Hummmmmm! I have a JR. Higher on my hands....Lord, help me!

Wednesday's Walk - More S'mores Please!

2011-08-31T08:07:00.011-04:00

One of my favorite summer time treats is sitting around the camp fire making S'mores! We were able to do that a few times this summer. I also enjoy the time spent with family and the mishaps that always happen while making this sweet creations. Mishaps like marshmallows catching on fire, marshmallows falling on the ground or in the fire and marshmallows stickyness all over cute faces.

So pull up a chair, get nice and warm, put a marshmallow on a stick, and join us for a S'more!

This is one of my favorite summer images in Ludington, MI. I love seeing my family enjoying each other, laughing, watching the sunset and of course eating S'mores.

Here is my aunt and my cousin's daughter with her extremely burnt marshmallow. Hahahaha Those usually end up in the fire or being eaten by the rare person who likes them that burnt. LOL Hahahaha it looks like a piece of charcoal on a stick.

Here is my sisters "Mega S'more" (as we called it)! It was your not so typical S'more. It had your graham cracker but it also had peanut butter, blue berries, bananas and chocolate in the middle of one of those giant marshmallows roasted perfectly. It was rather ridiculous, you couldn't eat the crazy thing. It was just too "Mega Good"!

Here we are at my dear friend's (Jenilee) home around their fire pit roasting marshmallows. I am so thankful for these precious moments and memories with good friends.
This is his yummy in my tummy try to smile, smile! LOL

Wednesday's Walk Ideas.....
Do you have any campfire memories?
Do you have a funny S'more story?

The summer isn't over yet, make sure you make a S'more!
Gooey, Yummy, Sticky memories always help me....
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Wednesday's Walk - God's Promise

2011-08-24T08:01:00.010-04:00

Last week, we got to see a beautiful double rainbow on the beach. I love rainbows. They always remind me that God keeps all His promises. They are pretty beautiful as well. We took some fun pictures and I thought I would share them today!

In case you do not have any Wednesday's Walk ideas, here are some.....
Do you have any fun rainbow pictures?
Do remember the last rainbow you saw and what did you think?

Always remember that God does keep His promises and...
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Wednesday's Walk - Jumping and Splashing

2011-08-17T08:05:00.014-04:00

I love watching my kids and hubby play, so here is some pictures of them jumping and splashing. I was inspired by my friend Jenilee to take these pictures.

If you need a Wednesday's Walk idea...
Do you have pictures of your kids playing?
What did you like to play with when you where a kid?

Be blessed and....
GET JOY!

Wednesday's Walk - Funny Lists

2011-08-10T10:22:00.003-04:00

Do you keep funny lists? One of mine is how many states I have been to. My dad has the same list and he currently is only missing one state....Idaho. A list can be very fun! So,because I just recently added two more, the Carolina's, here is my list of states that I have been able to check off ...

1. Arkansas
2. California
3. Connecticut
4. Delaware
5. Florida
6. Georgia
7. Illinois
8. Indiana
9. Kansas
10.Kentucky
11.Maine
12.Maryland
13.Massachusetts
14.Michigan
15.Minnesota
16.Missouri
17.Montana
18.New Hampshire
19.New Jersey
20.New York
21.North Carolina
22.North Dakota
23.Ohio
24.Oklahoma
25.Pennsylvania
26.South Carolina
27.South Dakota
28.Tennessee
29.Texas
30.Vermont
31.Virginia
32.Wisconsin
33.Wyoming

Ones I am missing:
1. Alabama
2. Alaska
3. Arizona
4. Colorado
5. Hawaii
6. Idaho
7. Iowa
8. Louisiana
9. Mississippi
10.Nebraska
11.Nevada
12.New Mexico
13.Oregon
14.Rhode Island
15.Utah
16.Washington
17.West Virginia

Ideas if you do not have any for Wednesday's Walk:
How many states have you been to?
Do you have any fun list that you keep?

Have a great last bit of summer and...
GET JOY!

Wednesday's Walk - Under the Umbrella

2011-08-03T06:35:00.000-04:00

My first Wednesday's Walk was entitled "Under the Umbrella", make sure you go check it out! So, in honor of that first Wednesday's Walk here is my daughters playing under their umbrellas at their Aunt's home. Aunt Joni is a wonderful aunt you can check her out here. How fun?!

If you don't have any other Wednesday's Walk ideas, here are some.
Did you ever do anything special at an Aunt's home?
Do you have any fond memories of an Aunt?

I hope you all are having a wonderful summer and may you always....
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Wednesday's Walk - 15 years of Love

2011-07-27T06:40:00.001-04:00

Today, John and I will be celebrating 15 years of marriage. I am amazed how much I love that man more and more everyday.

I started dating John when I was 16 years old....yes we are high school sweet hearts.

The very first thing that he ever said to me, was when I was 15 years old, he came up to me at the school pop machines and said, "Will you marry me?" I thought he was crazy!!!! I said, "NO WAY!" Who knew?!

You can go read our story here....John & Me!

Wednesday's Walk Ideas (If you can't come up with your own)
Do you have a crazy love story?
How did you meet your spouse?

Have a blessed day. I know today I will...
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Wednesday's Walk - The Peace Patrol

2011-07-20T06:00:00.000-04:00

"Hello, My name is Sam Saint, Super Sleuth!" said Dick Gruber a child's evangelist about 27 years at my christian schools chapel. For the next half hour, I listen to him intently as he shared the gospel in a very creative detective kind of way. I loved every second of his presentation and remember a lot about it to this day. Out of all the children's Pastors/ Evangelist I have ever heard hands down he was my favorite. My hubby thinks he heard him when He was a kid too.

Yesterday, my kids went to came home from kids camp and couldn't stop talking about the speaker. There two favorite things at camp Go-Karts and the service. I later found out...Sam Saint Super Sleuth was there. I nearly cried, because the very same man who spoke into my heart so many years ago had now spoke into the lives of my girls.

So, thank you Sam Saint, Super Sleuth....thank you.

"I am living for him faithfully in the Peace Patrol with my partner the Holy Spirit" and I will ....
GET JOY!

Pictures of my kids at camp!

Ideas for Wednesday's Walk
Do you have any memories from kids camp?
Did a speaker, pastor or Evangelist speak to you in a special way?

PSA: My family is on a sabbatical and I will not be online very much over the next month and half. I will still be posting Wednesday's Walk and reading your links. Don't get mad if I don't post your comments for awhile. I will read your link ups when I can. Thanks everyone and have a great summer. ~Blessings!

Wednesday's Walk - 4th of July Traditions

2011-07-13T07:05:00.001-04:00

For most of my life, I have spent the 4th of July in the beautiful town of Ludington. We go to the horrendously long parade and then in the evening sit on the beach to watch the spectacular fireworks. I love every minute of it.

Enjoying the parade!
Having fun on the beach; but not loving the sand...poor little man. LOL
This one family does this on the beach every 4th.
Fun sunset photos...

Our traditional family shot!

This years fireworks were the best ever! Wednesday's Walk Ideas:
Do you have any 4th of July traditions?
Do you have any fun firework memories?

GET JOY

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Wednesday's Walk - Quirks I love!

2011-07-06T06:15:00.000-04:00

When we were dating, every time we stopped to get gas my man would always wash the window. I would always watch in amazement how he perfectly he would wash and scrape every inch of the windshield. After a really seemingly long process, it would sparkle when he was done. I would always laugh because when I would wash the windshield, I could care less and it would be streaky and well....you can imagine ....obviously a girl too busy with too much on her mind to care about a windshield. LOL

A perfectly cleaned windshield is one of my hubby's cute little qwirky things that I would not change for the world.

I love him!

Wednesday's Walk idea:
Does your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend have a funny quirk you love?

GET JOY!

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Wednesday's Walk - We're Goin Campin Now!

2011-06-29T06:34:00.000-04:00

Camp in the Past....

Summer camps are so much fun. I remember how much I loved going to Girl Scout camp and Church camp when I was young.Here I am at our cabin, of course always ready with a great face for the camera.

I always had fun in Girl Scouts! Can you find my cheese face below?

Camp Now...

My daughter just went to Powette. Powette is our states girl's ministries church camp that we have every year. We had a great time.

Of course there was a lot of swimming!!!
Great services and a great speaker, Thank Netta Chilton!

Fun PJ Fashion Show!
Yummy food!

Fun Games!

Awesome Tea Party!

They do fun competitions like cooking, scrapbooking & sewing. Her is my girls pillow she made!

Summer Camps are always a blast!

Wednesday Walk Ideas:
Do you have any fun summer camp memories?
Do your children go to summer camp?

Always remember to....

GET JOY!

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Wednesday's Walk - Ice Cream Truck Edition

2011-06-22T06:16:00.001-04:00

Growing up in the city, it is not uncommon to hear the sounds of the ice cream truck coming down your street during the summer months. However, here in small town northern Michigan it is very rare to hear that sound...very rare. In fact, I think I have only heard the ice cream truck maybe three times in the 8 years we have lived here. One of those three was last Thursday.

My kids were pretty excited to pick out their ice cream treats. I remember that same excitement when I was little. I remember the joy of hearing that sound, running into the house, scurrying around looking for loose change, then hurrying out the door fearing that I might have missed the frozen treats on a stick and all I would see was the evidence of him being there on the faces of all the other children who were quicker than me.

Last Thursday, we waved down that ice cream man and here is the evidence that we didn't miss him......
He was very excited about his Batman ice cream! He kept saying over and over in a sing-songy- voice, "Batman"! Don't you just love that blue face?!
My girls enjoying their treats! My oldest and her expensive taste...of course she got the big yummy chocolate chip cookie ice cream sandwich. I think I will have her do some dishes to pay off that one! Hahahaha My middle girl of course wanted the double treat...you know....ice cream and bubble gum!
I love, love, love those strawberry crunch bars....so good.
Don't you just love this guys face??? He was actually pretty excited about his ice cream (it was like some orange creamsicle something) even though that is hard to tell from this picture. LOL

Wednesday's Walk ideas:

Do you have any ice cream truck memories?
Do you have any summer time favorite foods that remind you of something special?

Ice cream trucks and family fun help me...
GET JOY

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Top Ten Tuesday - Verses I Love!

2011-06-21T10:25:00.004-04:00

I have blogged about my favorite verses here before but here they are in a condensed version.

#1 Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

#2 Micah 6:8
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

#3 Philippians 4:13
For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

#4 Philippians 4:8
And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.

#5 Philippians 3:13-14
No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, ¹⁴ I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.

#6 I Peter 3:3-4 ³ Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. ⁴ You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.

#7 Romans 5:8
But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.

#8 Romans 8:38-39
³⁸ And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. ³⁹ No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.

#9 Psalm 16:11
You will show me the way of life,
granting me the joy of your presence
and the pleasures of living with you forever.

#10 Numbers 6:24-25
²⁴ ‘May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
²⁵ May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.

These verses help me to
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Wednesday's Walk - Home of the Sicky Sick

2011-06-15T13:10:00.006-04:00

Sickness has reared its ugly head in our home the last 2 weeks. Fevers of 103.4, sore throats, congestion, sneezing, coughing you name it we got it. Usually, when these germs creep into my home they also keep my kids up at night which then keeps me up with worry. I know, I know.... I am such a mom.

Now, I know that this seems to be a strange Wednesday's Walk; but hang on, I will get to the reason in a second. As I was caring for my kids this past week and the hours of tending to them in the middle of the night when I would rather be sleeping....I got to thinking. I started to remember the things my mom did for me when I was sick.

When I would have a fever she would sit by my bed and wipe a cool wash cloth on my forehead, cheeks and arms ever so gently. She would bring me water, juice, soup whatever to help me feel better. She would hold my hair back when my tummy wasn't feeling well and I was returning nasty germs to the toilet where they belonged. When I was in the hospital, she would sleep in the wretched chair every night until they released me. I always knew mom would take care of me even if it was gross, tiresome, or even frustrating. Why? Simply, because she loved me and she hated seeing me sick.

It is funny how much we pattern ourselves after our parents even in what seems small and insignificant. As I was wiping my daughter's forehead with a cool cloth, I remembered my mom. When I was a girl and was sick and felt crummy, I still felt love. I hope that my kids feel the same from me and they will give the same love that I gave to their children. In some strange way, a little piece of my mom and me will pass on long after we are gone in the ways that my children lovingly treat their children. That makes my heart feel glad.

Even in the little things.....
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Girly Summer Crafts 2011!

2011-06-08T09:09:00.011-04:00

Fourth of July Fun
Dress up the things you have with fun patriotic ribbon. I got this ribbon at Wal-mart for like $2.00. Look at how cute this plain white bucket hat now looks!!!! So easy, all you need to do is make a bow and sew it on with a simple stitch. You could hot glue it on; but if you want the bow to stay on better sewing it is the way to go! If you are unsure of your sewing skill...do your best and then add hot glue to make sure. hahahahaa!

These were fun patriotic pins we came up with this year. I got a cheep skein of yarn....red, white and blue of course. My daughter then crocheted a very long chain stitch for me. Go here to learn how to crochet a chain stitch. I then sewed the loops together at one end, sewed on a button and a pin on the back. Go here to learn how to make these flowers! How patriotic.... you could pin these on a jacket, dress, or a hat!
Flippy Flops
I love taking cheap flip flops and making them cute! Tie balloons to them! Take scraps of material and tie them on! Our take my fun fabric flowers and tie them on! So many fun ways to make your flip flops dazzling and adorable! And did I mention...how easy it is!!!!

For the balloon flip flops I first tied the ends of two water balloons together. I then tied those around the plastic top of the flip flop. What makes them cute is using complementary colors, patterns or rainbow order....Just have fun!

For these fun fabric flip flops, I borrowed my friend picking shears. You know those scissors that have a zig zag edge to keep fabric from fraying. You don't have to use those, they look fun frayed as well. I wanted to try something different this year. Cut your fabric in several strips to as long and as wide as you like. Lastly, tie them on! Your kids can do this one!!!!!

Don't you just love these gingham ones!!!!
Fabric Flowers!
Have I told you how much I love, love, love making these fabric flowers. I have blogged about making these before, go here to see how. New tidbit though....if you have and embossing heat tool use it! It is so much easier than using fire to melt the edges and less dangerous.

Put this flowers on hats, barrettes, pins, flip flops, purses or anything to make everything more adorable.
If you make lots of this stuff you can then sell it for some summer cash!!!! Whooo HOO!

Being crafty helps me...
GET LOTS OF JOY!

Wednesday's Walk - Last Day of School

2011-06-08T08:33:00.011-04:00

I remember always loving the last day of school. I loved cleaning out my locker, the excitement of summer vacation, saying good bye to teachers and friends, sitting in a bare classroom waiting for the last bell to ring and cheering as we left the building.

I had such fond memories of another year done; now, my girls are experiencing the same every year. Last Friday was their last day of school. Our school has some fun traditions. The intermediate school has an awards ceremony and at the end the 5th graders "graduate" by marching out of the gym and shaking the principal's hand on the way out. The teachers line the hall they go down and clap for their success.
The elementary "graduates" the second graders by having them march out of the building to the tune of "Pomp and Circumstance". Parents, students and teachers line the long hallways as the 2nd graders wave goodbye. John and I always count the students crying, so many tears!

Our family always hangs around for the final tradition of our school. The children load up in the bus yard. As the drivers leave the school grounds, the drivers beep their horns wildly as children hang out the widows waving goodbye to the teachers that line the sidewalk happily waving back to the children. As the last bus leaves the yard, a very loud cheer from the teachers can be heard blocks away.

Finally, a new tradition for us is to go reward our children for "A Job Well Done" at our favorite local ice cream shop.

Congratulations kids, another year done!!!!

Some ideas for your Wednesday's Walk if you can not think of one! Make sure you link up & get the button!

Do have any memories of your last days of school?
Do you have any traditions to celebrate the last day of school?

Celebrating the "Last Day of School" is fun and help me....

GET JOY!

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Wednesday's Walk - Lessons

2011-06-01T08:58:00.013-04:00

My kids just finished swimming lessons this year. It was their Christmas present from Grandpa and Grandma. (Great gift idea isn't it!) They love it so much, well maybe not my little man. He is getting use to it though. My oldest is doing really well; in fact, they want her to join the swim team. Here are some pictures from their last day!

There is my man helping my little man!!! Love it!

Please, link up with your favorite memories. They can be any memory you would like to share; but, if you need help I will give you an idea every week.

Did you take lessons as a kid? Do you take lessons now? Or what fun lessons do your kids take?

Enjoy walking down memory lane! Funny side note, we were walking downtown and went by a workout gym. My girls asked me, "Is that where you go for Wednesday's walk?" Hahahahaha I had to explain to them the saying, "Walk down memory lane"....toooooo cute!!!!

Be blessed and
GET JOY!

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Wednesday's Walk - Talent Shows

2011-05-25T00:19:00.006-04:00

My girls just had their end of the year talent show. They both did a great job and I loved seeing them use their talents to glorify God.

My youngest girl did a painting. Here she is describing what she did and how she did her painting.
She is so proud of her work of art!
And here is my oldest singing in front of at least 3oo students and parents. I could not be any more proud than I am right now. (Oh and that man playing the piano is the best man on the planet...I am so glad he is mine. )

What are your talents? Or what are your children's talents?

God's gifts to us are so precious and help me....
GET JOY!

Oooo and make sure you get the new Wednesday's Walk button & Link UP!!!!

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Wednesday's Walk- Season of Prom

2011-05-18T08:49:00.017-04:00

Okay so for this weeks post, I went into deep storage, the archives, storage bins long lost to find something really old. Yup, my formal pictures!

Now, I went to Christian schools my whole life so we didn't have Proms...but formals. Hehehehehe so take a stroll down memory lane with me today. You will notice that my husband was my date for almost every single one except my homecoming in '94. We were not dating at the time and there is a looooooonnnnngggg story that I will just have to share some other time.

I can't remember if we got a professional picture of our first homecoming and first date. I don't have them if I did. But this is the picture of my first formal dress ever, first date ever, first formal event ever....first kiss (on the cheek) later that evening....a night full of fun "Firsts"!

This is John's senior homecoming. It was in our school gym, it had a fun city theme. The song "Friends" by Michael W. Smith was sung too much at this banquet. Here is John's Jr/Sr Banquet. The guys rented a limo. It was a great time. But, I hate this dress. I really struggled looking for one and I settled. I hate it when I do that.

Now like I said earlier, John and I were broken up during my homecoming. Sadly, I can not find the professional pictures for this evening. They are probably at my moms. They are great pictures of a group of us and I love them. I hope I can find them. But, here is a picture of me and Zach. He was a good friend of mine. This dress is my favorite of all of them.

John and I are still not dating here...it was a confusing time. Anyway, for this evening it was still a good time. Our dinner was on the top of the Pontchartrain in downtown Detroit.

This is our Jr./Sr. Formal at college! What cuties we were. Our formal was on the Branson Belle, riverboat.

Do you still have your fun pictures????

Fancy dresses, good times and fond memories always help me....

GET JOY!!!!!

Ho Hum!

2011-05-13T14:26:00.001-04:00

Get your coffee, fuzzy blanket and bible and join me for a devotion that I shared on Monday at my Women's Ministry meeting.

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Freeing the Fat Friday- 3 Questions To Ask Yourself

2011-05-12T08:56:00.001-04:00

God's Lesson For Me
I was watching a show this week about losing weight and they asked three very great questions. Bob Greene asked them on Oprah. You can go here to see how you are suppose to answer the questions here. I want to try to answer those questions today.

1. Why are you overweight?
I think that I am mostly overweight because I simply stopped caring. I also think that is stressed related....I get stressed...I eat!

2. Why do you want to lose weight?
I want to lose weight because I want to be healthy. I am tired of feeling yucky and tired all the time. I am beginning to see the result already. I have been off of my acid reflux medication for almost four months now. I use to have terrible heart burn! I am so thrilled that I have not been suffering from that for awhile.

I also want to be lose weight to glorify God. I want all of me to be all of His! I do not want to hold anything back.

3. Why haven't you been successful to date?
Hummmmmmmmm.....I am lazy.....bottom line, that is it! It is so hard for me to develop discipline and consistency when it comes to my eating habits. I have a lot of excuses that don't matter. I have the resources at my finger tips. I just need to do it!

I really think God wants us to ask the hard questions and answer them truthfully. Answers that are more than just I like food, I want to look pretty and I don't know how. God wants to really examine our hearts and get to the root of our addictions.

If our answers are superficial than we will not be successful. We need to be honest right from the start. When we are honest with ourselves then we will find the motivation to press on. I found that I had to deal with the fact that I was obese; because I hated the very word and tried to ignore it for so long. I had to deal with the fact that I was carrying the weight of a child every day. I had to get real with the fact that my weight was the reason I felt physically horrible all the time.

I also had to accept who God made me to be, His creation. I needed to realize that He still loved me even 50lbs overweight. It was my inner beauty that still made me beautiful. Losing weight doesn't make me a beautiful person. It may make my appearance more attractive; but it doesn't make my heart beautiful. I can only truly be beautiful inside and out if I cultivate Christ in my life.

^{Proverbs 31}

²⁹ “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world,
but you surpass them all!”³⁰ Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last;
but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.³¹ Reward her for all she has done.
Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.

Meals for the Week & Exercise

Back to the daily grind of 1,200 calories. We will get there...we will get there. I am getting really good at knowing how many calories I am taking in...and really good at knowing when I go over. My hubby and I will probably be picking up the exercise thing again next week. He wasn't real happy when he weighed himself at the doctor the other day. I may have just got some motivational help thanks to his physical.

Food's Favorite Friends

Applebee's Rocks! Have you tried their 500 calorie dinners????!!!!! I love them for providing yummy food that I can feel good about eating! Go here and check them out! This my favorite and it really is soooo good, Signature Sirloin with Garlic Herb Shrimp! Doesn't it look good????

Life Challenge

Always be truthful with myself and....

GET JOY!

Wednesday's Walk - Hoo, hoo, hooo, hooo. Bouncy, Bouncy

2011-05-11T00:00:00.001-04:00

Last week, we found this great place in Canton, MI. It is an indoor bounce house place. They have huge rooms with a bunch of those fun inflatables that kids love so much. We got a great deal from groupon $10 for a session for all five of us. Totally worth it and totally fun!!!! They also have party rooms...what a great place for birthdays!!!!
They loved this place, great price and great fun!

He loved just running around watching everyone. He has a lot of fears; but by the end of our time there he got on a few things and bounced.
I realized how old I am getting physically...but how young I am at heart. Yup...that is me waiting to go down that crazy slide!
We had fun watching our kids playing...even we got in on the fun! That slide was awesome. I still have a burn on my elbow from it, because it was so slippery. Hehehehehe
My kids are too cute!

What kind of crazy fun have you had with your family, your friends...or hey even by yourself???

Hanging out with my family helps me....
GET JOY!

Fun side note this is my 400th post...that is crazy, considering how much I hate writing! I hope to have a new button soon for Wednesday's Walk...maybe next week.

Wednesday's Walk - A Kid's Perspective!

2011-05-04T00:04:00.015-04:00

So, I am now the official host of Wednesday's Walk, Thanks Jenilee! Whoo Hoo! Please feel free to link up with me and post your wonderful memories on Wednesdays. I can't wait to read your fun stories!

I was going through some of my old picture files on my computer and found these fantastic pictures my girls took on their rite aid digital cameras. They took some pretty typical kid pictures of our trip to Washington D.C. These pictures below were taken by my then 6 year old daughter.....

Of course, she had to grab a picture of the view from one of our hotels.....
and her MP3 player!
Here is the blurry picture from the Hershey tour....

Let's not forget the extreme close up photo!
The picture of the random ducks...they are there....really....in the middle....yup...see them?!
Or how about the picture of strangers?!
Then there are the funny face photos and the not so flattering ones of me. hehehehehee
But then every so often they grab one that just melts your heart......

My little photographers and their cheep camera photos help me....
GET JOY!

Do you have any old un-posted photos or kid taken photos????? Link up and join the fun!

I am hosting....

2011-05-03T13:29:00.002-04:00

I am going to be hosting Wednesday's Walk! Write a memory, share a story or post fun pictures that you want to share or reminisce. How fun is that?!

Stop by on Wednesday's and link up!
Whoo HOO!

GET JOY!

Much Ado about Royal Weddings

2011-04-29T06:58:00.015-04:00

I remember when I was a little girl and getting up very early in the morning to see a very Royal Wedding. Today, I got my girls up for another Royal wedding. Those British sure do know how to put on a very beautiful event! But it really was very early in the morning for us Americans.

I had no problem getting them up for the wedding.

Not awake yet!

Tea for a beautiful wedding!

Royal Crown Crumpet!

The Wedding is just about to start!

My fascinator! This should catch on in America....to much fun!

Starting to finally wake up!

Very fun sleepy morning ...but Fun!

Making fun memories always help me....
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Wednesday's Walk - A Beautiful Resurrection Sunday

2011-04-27T08:28:00.019-04:00

I hope and pray that everyone had a blessed Resurrection Day this past Sunday. We surely did. In fact, it was one of the best days I have had in a long while. I love special days with my family. This one was extra special because it was also my daughter's birthday. She was very excited that her birthday fell on this day this year. She asked for a white dress to wear and we tried to make it a little extra special for her.

Making some pretty eggs with Auntie!

Grandpa teaching my guy how to swing....too cute!

My Beautiful Kids...I just love them so much it hurts!

A very yummy dinner together! And yes my kids did mix all sorts of weird beverages in their glasses. We also had wonderful sugar free birthday banana cream pie (soo good) and we hid all her presents.

I had to make sure to take some pictures of me with my kids....there are not many sadly!

Happy 11th Birthday, beautiful girl!

Aunt Jenni is the best!

My daughter wearing the necklace my dad gave me when I was a young girl. We gave it to her because the next time her birthday lands on Easter will be when she is 95. A special present for a special day!

John's parents!
My parents!
Love This!

A beautiful birthday party and celebrating Jesus conquering death and the grave with my family helps me....

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Have I mentioned how much I love my new best friend...my camera! Thank you sweet friend for helping me always remember today.

Not Me Monday- Swimming Edition

2011-04-26T09:32:00.006-04:00

I would never do a "Not Me Monday" on a Tuesday and break the rules...I would never do that!

I would not sign up my kids for swimming lessons with 2 out of 3 kids not wanting them.... Nope not me.

My hubby would not think it was crazy to sign a toddler up for swimming lessons. And I would not then make him do the first lesson with him. No I would never do that to MY husband.

My baby would not scream the whole 30 minutes of his first lesson (poor daddy, what a guy to endure it). My son doesn't fear the water at all....not my child.

Last nights lesson would not be more of the same, except he was with me this time in the water. I would not feel like an idiot during the whole thing; because I didn't know what was going on and I couldn't hear the teacher because of the SCREAMING....not me at all.

My son did not master the art of getting out the pool!!!! Nope not HIM!

I would not be so wrapped up in getting him to calm down that I didn't realize where I was. I would not then back into the pool wall where I crushed another mom and her baby....no not me.

The teacher would not stop a portion of the lesson, yell out that we were doing it wrong, yell out that we were going to do it right and I would not be the reason we where doing it wrong, Yikes! That would just be terrible and I would not have anything to do with it....not me!

At the end of the lesson we would not have to dunk our precious children under the water. I would not cringe at the thought. I would not let the teacher do it twice. And I would most certainly not tell the teacher, "Might as well, He is crying anyway!" I would not see the look of pleasure the teacher had as she submerged my child under the water. What a terrible mother that would be....hehehehehe...Not me!

And none of those parents will be happy we are not there next Monday because of District Council....Nope not them.

I would not then ask my son, "Do you like swimming?" He would then not shake his head no several times....Nope not my son!

Swimming Lesson....not so sure they help me....

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maybe more of a headache. LOL

(He actually did better this week...He only cried half of the time. Hey, I think we are improving. He even smiled, participated and played during class...baby steps, literally baby steps!)

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

A Very Merry Un Birthday Party!

2011-04-23T17:03:00.012-04:00

A very merry unbirthday
To me
To who?
To me
Oh, you

A very merry unbirthday
To you
Who, me?
To you
Oh, me

Let's all congrulate us with another cup of tea
A very merry unbirthday to you

Now statistics prove
Prove that you've one birthday
Imagine just one birthday every year
Ah, but there are 364 unbirthdays
Preciselywhy we're gathered here to cheer

A very merry unbirthday
To me?
To you
A very merry unbirthday
For me?
For you
Now blow the candle out, my dear
And make your wish come true
A very merry unbirthday to you

The decorations turned out so cute!

Well, after this I should think nothing of falling down stairs. - Alice

A very Mad Hatter Tea Party!
We had fun party favors....
Drink Me Bottles, Cheshire Cat notebooks (thanks Target dollar spot), White chocolate rabbits, and fun flower pens I made.

Clean cup, clean cup. Move down.

If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary-wise; what it is it wouldn't be, and what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? - Alice

Family that loves her much more muchier!

Fun Gifts!
There is a place. Like no place on Earth. A land full of wonder, mystery, and danger! Some say to survive it: You need to be as mad as a hatter.....Which luckily I am. - Mad Hatter

Fun craft made out of cards!
Off with their Heads!- Queen of Hearts!

Sweet Friends celebrating their unbirthday as well!

Happy UnBirthday my sweet eleven year old!

Have I gone mad? -The Mad Hatter

I'm afraid so. You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
- Alice

I can't wait to celebrate your real birthday soon!

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I'm late, I'm late, For a very important date. No time to say "Hello." Goodbye. I'm late, I'm late, I'm late.

Favorite Art- Ron Dicianni and Friends

2011-04-21T08:23:00.000-04:00

My favorite Christian artist is Ron Dicianni. In many ways, I feel like he is very similar to my overall favorite artist Norman Rockwell. I love pictures that grip my heart and make me feel. Ron Dicianni's pieces really challenge me and my faith. When a piece of art does more than look pretty on a wall...then that is true art.

I have had the honor of meeting some full time artist in my life. Danielle, I met when we first started youth ministry. I loved hanging out with her and talking about her art. She is an amazingly wonderful woman and just fun to hang out with. She gave me a signed print of hers and I love it.

Danielle Spohn Moes can be purchased here.

I met Christy Perrine at National Fine Arts this past year. I blogged about the event here. She is an amazing artist as well. I was a little surprised about how awesome she is. I had fun talking about her art with her. I personally hate using the medium she uses, pastels. I think it is messy and hard to work with. But Christy can do amazing things with those pastels. Her work is simply beautiful!

You can check out her gallery here and actually buy a piece! Wouldn't you just love to have these hanging in your home?!

How Fun!
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Wednesday's Walk - An Easter Brrrrr!

2011-04-20T08:57:00.008-04:00

We just had some more snow fall last night, grrrrr. I would really like to see some warm weather head to northern Michigan, fast! I keep remembering one Easter nine years ago and then I feel a little bit better about the weather right now.

We lived further north back then. One Easter morning, I woke up to this beautiful picture outside my window. It was rather breath taking. I didn't seem to mind snow on this Easter morning because for some reason it came with a deep meaning for me. The work on the cross on good Friday...makes me whiter than snow today. His blood covers my sin. His victory over death and the grave allows me to be able to stand pure before God with the hope of life. Wow...what a wonderful message for me that cold, cold morning.

That morning, I did not mind the brrrrrr on my face as I went out and grabbed some pictures.

Easter is such a wonderful, fun time for our family. We were warm inside looking for eggs.

Playing with the treasures in our Easter baskets....
Getting ready for church...
Worshiping Jesus for who is and all that He has done! Have a wonderful Easter, stay warm and....
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Jenilee at The Goodwin Family is hosting Wednesday's Walk.

Favorite Art- From Da Vinci to Cassatt

2011-04-20T08:02:00.001-04:00

Some day I want to go here and see the the amazing work of ...
Leonardo da Vinci

And then I will hop on over to here....to see some of this artist amazing work!
Michelangelo
Here are some other favs....
Raphael

Edward Hopper

Edgar Degas

Georges Seurat

Pierre-Auguste Renoir

Mary Cassatt

I hope you enjoyed these pieces as much as I have!
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Favorite Art- Georgia O'Keeffe

2011-04-19T08:00:00.000-04:00

Just beautiful! I don't need to say anything more!
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You can learn about her here!

Favorite Art- Van Gogh

2011-04-18T08:03:00.004-04:00

At the Detroit Institute of Arts I was able to see something amazing a couple years ago....

I literally nearly jumped out of excitement when I had the opportunity to see this piece in person. I know, I am crazy! Who gets excited about seeing famous pieces of art??? Me!!! Whoo HOO!

Great things are done by a series of small things brought together. -Van Gogh

Did you know he was a Pk and a lay preacher???

We reproduced this piece on a wall in art class. This is the picture I helped with.

As we advance in life it becomes more and more difficult, but in fighting the difficulties the inmost strength of the heart is developed. - Van Gogh

My daughters and I love this one, Starry Night!

I put my heart and my soul into my work, and have lost my mind in the process- Van Gogh.

Why are artist so eccentric?

Crazy Van Gogh... I love your stuff!
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Favorite Art - Claude Monet

2011-04-17T08:00:00.001-04:00

I would love to have this really big painting hanging over my piano....sigh!

I just love these. When I look at Monet's art, I feel so peaceful. Don't you just want to stroll through these paintings? I think... I also feel connected to these pieces because I love to do impressionistic art. Just beautiful Monet...just beautiful.

No one is an artist unless he carries his picture in his head before painting it, and is sure of his method and composition. -Monet

Everyone discusses my art and pretends to understand, as if it were necessary to understand, when it is simply necessary to love. - Monet

Here is my daughters interpretation of Monet's water lilies.

Mr. Monet, your paintings help me...
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You can read his biography here.

Favorite Art - M.C Escher

2011-04-16T08:00:00.001-04:00

I love, love, LOVE M.C Escher. Some of his work is so creepy; but I love the mind tricks he plays on us through his art. I have a book with a lot of his work. It is so fun to look at. I think I also like his stuff because I love to do black and white, pen and ink, pencil drawings best.

He did 137 pieces and these 4 are my favorites!

Are you really sure that a floor can't also be a ceiling? -Escher

This last one is my all time favorite of his!

Only those who attempt the absurd will achieve the impossible. I think it's in my basement... let me go upstairs and check.-Escher

This quote made me laugh....

I don't use drugs, my dreams are frightening enough. - Escher

Here is his official site and you can read about him there. I could have went to see a traveling exhibit of his work 2 years ago...I didn't go. Here is some advice...if you ever have the opportunity to go see something that you love...DO IT, DO HESITATE, JUST GO! I found out his work is rarely on display because it is sensitive to light. I should have went....lesson learned.

I will enjoy his work from afar and
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Favorite Art - Norman Rockwell

2011-04-15T10:50:00.011-04:00

I love art so much. The one thing that I want to do someday before I die, that is just a personal desire, is go to Paris and sit for hours in the Louvre Museum.

One of my all time favorite is American artist, Norman Rockwell. Even though he was just considered a illustrator, I find that his art came from a deep part of him. His ability to capture expression is astounding to me. His work has the ability to make me laugh, smile, cry and feel. He is truly an amazing artist in my book.

This first piece just makes me laugh.

I'll never have enough time to paint all the pictures I'd like to. -Norman Rockwell
He painted over 4,000 pieces!

Some people have been kind enough to call me a fine artist. I've always called myself an illustrator. I'm not sure what the difference is. All I know is that whatever type of work I do, I try to give it my very best. Art has been my life. -Norman Rockwell

I have this one hanging in my kitchen...it makes me smile!

I just love art, it really helps me....
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There is a great biography of him here!

Getting Ready for a Party....

2011-04-08T10:48:00.002-04:00

I will post my daughters 11th birthday party in a couple weeks...come check it out! I am so excited!

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Numbers 6:24-25

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Dear Moms and Dads of Girls,

Our Kids and the BIG NEWS

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD.“They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

I love this prayer of Moses in Exodus 33,

This is my prayer today!

May, I find your favor and..

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Picture taken by my friend Nicole Dee

My Boring Testimony

Can I tell you how much I love this?! Because I have always considered my testimony to be boring! As I was growing up, I always thought that a more interesting testimony would draw people to Christ. I thought mine would never make a difference; but, in countless ways it has.

So, here is my boring testimony....

My mom told me that I asked Jesus in my heart at a VBS at the age of four. I don't really have a memory of this; however, my parents were laying the ground work for me to have as many opportunities as possible to hear the gospel. Jesus was such a central part of our home.

I remember in the third grade in kid's church a man telling me that I had to choose to follow Christ. I remember very clearly God speaking to my heart about His love for me. He told me He died for me. He told me that He wanted me to live for Him. I decided to be a follower of Christ that day.

When I was a little older I stood in front of a congregation and told them how much I loved Jesus. I then was baptized. I remember coming out of the water and knowing that I was a new person. I was His and He was mine.

In Jr. high, I was miraculously healed. In high school, I was called into full time ministry. I was also miraculously saved in a car accident. In college, I married a pastor. Last year, I received my license as a minister of the Gospel. That is my life, plain and simple.

Even though my testimony may seem boring....

What is your testimony?

and.....

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Philippians 4:13

13 For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

And in His strength I will…

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¹³ For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.